Am I the only one who thought my 20s would look vastly different?
Back in high school, I envisioned myself by the age of 25 with a loving husband, a cozy house, and a loyal golden retriever. Who wouldn’t want that idyllic picture? Yet, here I am, almost 23, and none of those dreams have materialized – not even the dog!
Entering adulthood comes with countless unspoken expectations. Between social media, friendships, family relationships, and the church, the pressure mounts. In these moments, I often find solace in remembering that none of these external things define my success – only Jesus does.
Despite this, I sometimes feel a pang of disappointment, wondering why things can’t align with my plans. I believe I would be happier if they did. But in truth, Jesus has something far greater in store for not just me, but for you as well. Here are three reminders that help me hold on to the truth of God’s goodness when I’m feeling doubtful.
Three Tips to Remember God’s Goodness:
- Changing My Posture:
When I find myself spiraling in my thoughts, it’s crucial to remember I am not alone. Many others experience similar feelings; they just might not openly discuss them. If you’re reading this, know that you are pretty awesome, and maintaining a positive attitude might be the missing piece (Also, a fun fact: Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson didn’t marry until they were both 31, and they’ve been happily married for 35 years. So, there’s always hope!). - Reading Scripture:
It’s essential to turn to scripture for comfort and guidance. God’s timing is always perfect, even if it seems slow to us. Verses like Proverbs 16:9 and Hebrews 10:23 remind me that Jesus cares deeply for us, ensuring that everything is prepared perfectly. Sometimes, the longest waits bring the most profound blessings. - A Better Me:
I view this waiting season as an incredible opportunity for personal growth. Everyone aspires to be their best self and lead a life they’re proud of. What better time to focus on self-improvement than now? This period is a divine gift, allowing us to prioritize our growth and become the person God intends us to be. Isn’t it wonderful that God loves us so much that He provides this time to develop self-care before we care for others?
Over the past six months, I’ve learned that God’s plan is truly greater than mine. When our future plans don’t align with reality, it often means our vision was not as magnificent as we thought when we were younger. I firmly believe that Jesus has better things in store for me and for you too. Take a moment today to thank Jesus for steering you away from your flawed plans and guiding you towards His perfect path.
Scripture References:
- Proverbs 16:9: “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”
- Hebrews 10:23: “Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.”
Reflection
rust in God’s timing and plan, for He knows what’s best for us. Rejoice in the journey He has laid out, and embrace the growth and blessings He bestows upon us.
